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Imagination is the gatekeeper of the human soul. Alister E. McGrath
This show is a prerecord from December because I’m neck deep right now in shooting a new short film, The Traveller. I am running a crowdfunding campaign for it on IndieGoGo so if you like this show and want to show your support please do go and check it out – I’ll put links in the show notes and it’ll be all over social media so you can’t miss it.
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If it's that difficult for a rich man to get into heaven, think how terrible it must be for a poor man to get in. He doesn't even have a bribe for the gatekeeper. Reverend Ike
A gatekeeper is anyone who works to allow, refuse, limit, redirect, support, or hinder you. Proceeding through life with a state of mind that refuses to acknowledge that these people exist will only lead you to failure. Gatekeepers are everywhere, sometimes self-appointed, sometimes toxic, and sometimes helpful and encouraging, but unless you put on your high-level thinking head and acknowledge that they exist you will waste a lot of time in life. These people are usually in a position of power relative to you and they may know people or have the last word when it comes to how you'd like to live your life.
Over the years I’ve come up against gatekeepers in my filmmaking endeavors again and again and again. I’m shooting this short film at the moment with a crowd funder to back it as I long ago gave up on ever being accepted into Scottish film funding. I first hit the brick wall that is a gatekeeper when I went to Scottish Screen in 2011 after my feature film had achieved some success in a Cineworld release. I’ve told this story before but it's relevant. The film officer there told me that not only were they not interested in anything I was hoping to develop but that they will never, then or in the future allow me to access any funding.
There are gatekeepers who make you better and climb higher than you ever thought you could, but there are others who put limitations on you and can stop you from succeeding. So how do you figure out which is which and what to do about them?
If you are trying to change your life and take action toward a certain goal and you’re meeting resistance now is the time to take stock and figure out if you have met a brick wall that is going nowhere. If you discover your gatekeepers are unmoveable brick walls then there are ways to approach the situation that can help you.
Going head-to-head with gatekeepers is not always difficult but it takes legwork and time and effort and developing an awareness of who is out there will help you.
Putting aside more general gatekeepers, like the legal system, the police, security guards, teachers, parents etc etc, and drilling down into the industry or the world you would like to engage with will help you to identify them. Who are the gatekeepers in your life and career? Are they supportive of you and your aspirations? Do they do nothing to help you, or do they actively hinder you?
It’s important once you have identified the gatekeepers in your life and generally how your interactions with them are influencing you that you become more intentional about how you interact with these people. Becoming more intentional is about your gatekeepers knowing what you need from them, this implies that you know what you need from them.
So, what do you want? And how can your gatekeepers help you get there? What can they do to assist you? Do they know what they can do? If not then how can you make them aware of what you need from them? If they know what you want and how to help you then the question becomes are they doing what you need them to do?
Once you have identified the gatekeepers and figured out if they know what you want from them, the next step is determining whether you have made it clear what you need from them, or if you have ever even reached them. Here we will assume you have done your best to let your gatekeepers know what you need from them on several occasions over a period of time.
You need to have done this step and be sure that you have been heard as best you can and given the person ample time to take action. Sometimes, a person who is a gatekeeper in your life may help you without you even knowing it. They may put in a good word with their gatekeepers to get you an opportunity. Or they could be on the lookout for something that will align with their needs as well as yours.
But if you feel like you’ve been clear and given sufficient time and you aren’t seeing anything happening then you might want to begin to question if your gatekeeper has become a brick wall. Unfortunately, the reality is the gatekeepers in our lives aren’t all about accommodating us and our aspirations and dreams. And there are plenty of reasons why the gatekeepers in your life become brick walls for you achieving your dreams.
They have their own agenda
Politics (it’s better for them to do nothing or actively work against you)
They feel threatened by you
They themselves are insecure about their position
Conflicting interests – They want what you want
They aren’t willing to help you
Personality clashes – They don’t like you
They just don’t have time or the energy
You and your goals aren’t even on their radar as something they should be interested in
There isn’t anything in it for them
They are consciously or unconsciously biased against you
They can’t see how their actions/inactions are affecting you negatively
Sometimes, it isn’t possible to get the other person to help you in a way that meets your needs. It is at this point that you need to decide whether you need this person or if there is another gatekeeper somewhere else who could help you.
Your current gatekeeper may be one who puts limitations on you, who doesn’t meet your needs, and who isn’t on your side. They don’t see your potential and push you toward that end. And they have the power to make you feel worthless. So, who is someone that does the opposite? Do you know that person yet or do you have to go out and find that person?
Here is an example of how I continued my dialogue, fruitless though it was with Scottish Screen, after realising that the first film officer I had been talking to was against me. I went to another film officer. I didn’t approach Scottish Screen as an entity and have them redirect me back to the same officer who shut me down, I researched and went directly to another officer, and without seeking any funding I started to create links and build a relationship with him instead. He was considerably more open to my existence than the previous one.
Gatekeepers who put limitations on you and block you from getting access to what you need may lead to you feeling bad about yourself and undervaluing who you are and what you bring to the table. The value of your own self-worth can decrease if you continually ignore your needs and allow others to do the same.
This is a hard thing to realize but in life, difficult gatekeepers teach us the value of who we are and the importance of being valued. If you don’t feel like you are valued or getting what you need then it is so much easier to get discouraged, lack motivation, and ultimately this kind of negative association isn’t healthy. It can change your mindset and make you stressed, anxious, and depressed. None of these states of mind help you reach your goals and really hurt your quality of life.
So, if you have identified a gatekeeper in your life that has become a brick wall ask yourself if staying is affecting your health and well-being. If it is then you have to ask yourself if it’s worth it. Is what you are doing trying to fight and push up against an immovable object? And if they aren’t going to be moved and they are resisting your attempts to find a compromise then what is the point? Is it worth you being miserable?
If it’s not then look to other paths to get what you want. If your aspirations, your goals, and your health are being affected by a gatekeeper and you know that what you need from them you are never going to get then take action and make a change. Find some new gatekeepers who see you for your strengths and potential.
Perhaps on another path, you will find new gatekeepers who are supportive of you and your aspirations.
Allow for many paths to your goal. Do not fixate on one path, because then you are likely to give up when that path is blocked. Po Bronson
In next week’s show, I will be taking on a kind of similar high-level topic, but I’ll wait for you to join me to find out more.
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I’ll end today with some words from Maya Angelou who said If you are going down a road and don't like what's in front of you, and look behind you and don't like what you see, get off the road. Create a new path!
Now take control of your own destiny, keep on shootin’ and join me next time on FILM PRO PRODUCTIVITY AND SUCCESS!
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